My girlfriend is diagnosed with clinical anxiety stemming from some bad past relationships. She goes to her meetings and counseling. When anxiety moments do occur it's very important that I support her, but to not react strongly in any way. I have to maintain form at all times and stay very calm. Reason being because if I act worried it only drives the anxiety event even deeper, and if I act rudely, or wrongly, and not be supportive, well that is just mean and probably harmful to her.
Though I am on the Huff needs to not play wagon, I can understand what is happening with him to some degree and feel badly for him. I hope that he gets the help that he needs.
And to chango, your responses are ignorant, completely and totally. Believe it or not buddy, life is not a black and white chalk board and is full of grey. Learn compassion and empathy, it can take you much farther in life then just throwing out blanket statements, not everyone is perfect like you expect them to be.