<<So when the right says stuff like that its not meant to be taken literally, but when the left says it, its to be taken word for word?>>
Not sure why you've directed that at me, if indeed you have. That's not what I said. If fact, I don't think I even mentioned what is said about the left, because it would have been off topic, and I despise partizan tennis matches.
For clarity however, since if I don't reply to your point a certain poster may now think I'm avoiding it, the answer is no. There are numerous occasions where someone on the left has said something and the right has hyped it out of all recognition. I recently read a story about how Obama, when Bush's picture at the White House was unveiled, had called Bush "George" in a speech instead of the conventional (when referring officially to a former POTUS) "Mr President". The RW media insisted he had done this out of lack of respect and that it was a deliberate slight. I have no idea what was in his mind when he said it, but my point is it's a non story, hyped by the right to feed this insane tribal was where one side believes the other is the devil incarnate (as clearly demonstrated earlier in this thread).
Both are equally stupid and have, as you quite rightly go on to say, no place in reasonable political debate.
As to common courtesy going out of the window, I completely agree. I can't recall having a genuine argument on this board since 2007, but when I feel I have behaved reasonably towards someone and they continue to throw accusations at me, eventually I lose patience as well, particularly when one post leads to someone extrapolating what my entire spectrum of policy opinion may be. I'm not proud of it, and usually I know better, particularly when having a discussion with someone who I already know to have an unbalanced political opinion. This one got away from me though.