welcome to NY noah. sigh...
<what he said, I'm sure isn't "anti gay" like it says. When 2 guys talk just bsing and fooling around, this is the type of stuff that gets said in such a conversation. It does NOT necessarily mean that he hate's gays or whatever. The problem is that people look at it and just want to make something of it and therefore say it's "offensive." People make big deals over nothing.
I'm sure we have all said to someone at some point "I'm going to kill you!" Now, does that mean that you are ACTUALLY going to kill the person you said that to? Or is it just bs conversation? Some people are either just oversensitive or just want to make a big deal for attention.
Of course, there are actual legit offenses that can occur on certain comments so I'm not saying that everyone should just "grow a pair" and not worry about what people say. Comments like this though should just be left alone.
more manufactured controversy around the Mets. Dickey's a bad guy, a 20 year old is a homophobe.
"He's 20...give him a break."
Give him a break? What are you talking about? Did you even read my post? I wasn't getting on him for making that comment...was actually doing the opposite saying that it is NOT a big deal.
"I was agreeing with you lol"
To me, that looks like you are telling ME to give him a break. That can be a bit confusing if that isn't what you meant by that. I assume you meant "people should give him a break and not make a big deal about his comments"...or something like that, so we are in agreement and I apologize for any misinterpretations.