<<"I mean sure if someone came and blew them away with a trade where saying no would be irresponsible"
Someone did. D'Arnaud and Snydergaard is being blown away.
<<"He knew RA isn't the type to say "Not now this is about the kids" or anything like that."
I think the decision to trade Dickey was made long before the party. In any case, I have no idea why Dickey didn't say no comment.