I never said the man shouldn't do charity work/donations. I bet he does. More importantly, how do you know he doesn't?
As far as his relationship with the Mets go, its not his prerogative to worry about the Wilpon's investments, whether it be himself or anyone else on the team. Thats what he was, an investment. He gave 100% as far as I could tell and nobody in the clubhouse ever came out and said he was a bad teammate or didn't try hard, so no, he doesn't owe anybody a dam thing.
He suffered concussions while playing for the Mets, so I could make the argument (and it would be stronger than yours) that while playing for the Mets, his future earning potential was diminished and thus has even more standing and assurance to feel good about the money he was payed during his time here.
Players have every right to cash in when they can, because they might never have another opportunity. Do you see where Boston gave him more money for playing above his contract? Nobody cares about you when you are gone so its just as fair to keep the feeling mutual.
Strictly from a business point of view - which actually is all this is - this is Capitalism. You take risks and live with the consequences. It's not the role of the worker to worry about the owners finances *unless his/her job may depend on it, but I digress and really beyond the point and scope of the conversation here.
If its such an untenable risk, then why did the Wilpons take it in the first place? Why should Bay have to feel an obligation to correct for the Mets inflexibility with regards to payroll? There is no logical argument when you look at it objectively.
Its one thing to be upset as a Mets fan with the teams situation in addition to Bay's poor tenure playing for this team (which is very understandable and I share that sentiment), but its quite another to expect him to give all his money back based on his impact on the teams finances.
And let me finish by asking you, would you be demanding that he give his money back if he actually did well here? The financial situation would still be the same regardless of his performance, so why should that fly as your reasoning to begin with? The Mets problems go beyond Bay and the fault lies more with ownership and management more than any single individual party.
Oh and I'm not religious, I take that as an insult. My name was formally "PrayforBay" so to keep up the sarcasm, I changed it to "PrayedforBay"
Edited Dec-10 by PrayedforBay