Yeah, have to be luck, unfortunately.
I think I said somewhere else, the perception of Desmond reminds me of how the Expos' Tim Wallach was perceived. Wallach was not Mike Schmidt so he didn't get into too many All Star Games and only won the accolades (Silver Slugger, etc.) he earned. But he was a solid player who contributed a ton to the team.
Desmond is a huge asset to the Nats: excellent defensive player and very dangerous hitter who contributes his fair share of RBI's - and often big RBI's. Good clubhouse guy who doesn't miss many games. But he's not Tulowitzki, Ramirez or Rollins at the plate.
Some people will always look at him and see what he's not, not appreciating what he is.
I hope until a super SS develops out of the farm, Nats keep Desmond as I think he's a character team guy.